Because I spoke on why I don't want a single mother already in that post, I won't go down that line again. But what I am saying now is that Its A Preference. Females say all the time "I don't want a guy with no job, no car, not educated, doesn't have his own crib, and blah blah blah". But then those same females end up with drama in their life...why? Because they check off the basic values but not the things that can be possible issues or drama. And a female with a child can be just that. And I'm not trying to deal with it. Its funny though when these single mothers attack me on facebook or twitter. It's not like I said they should die or something...just that I don't want them lol. A females says she likes dark skin guys, I'm happy. A female says she likes light skin guys, I'm indifferent. I can't be upset that they have a preference I don't belong to. That's idiotic.
Today a friend of mine got on me about my expectations being too high. What was my want in a girl I'm dating...that she is working towards her future. I didn't say in her field working....college degree....or even a 5 year plan. I just said someone working towards their future. What's the issue with that? She said because of my age, 23, that is too much to ask of someone. But I don't get that. You should start working from a young age on those things. Not wait around and hope things come to you. The older you are, the less time you have to accomplish what you want. So if you tell me because of that my hopes are too high for a female.....then damn....I should have been thinking like that for a longer time.
One consistent thing i did see though...its usually the people that belong to the groups I don't want that get upset. Bad for them though. That's life. If I don't want your group......then I dont want you're group.
We All Have Preferences, Don't Like Mine.....Too Bad. But If You're Happy I Choose Your Group Over Another....Don't Be Angry If I Choose Their Group Over Yours.
lmao... you are a fool for this one j. i dont know what girls you've been talking to but i totally agree with ur right to a "preference"... everyone has one so eehhh... its whatever. maybe u need to change up the ways in which you find women that can actually catch ur attention in a way that mirrors ur "preference"... that way there is no need to fuss n u can finally start blogging about something nice for a change... like love lol
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lol I got you. I'll talk about love in my next post. And its not the females I talk to that have these issues...its random females that I see me say something on the matter (on Facebook or Twitter) or hear me talk about it. The females I talk to usually fit right in to what I usually go for and are worth my time.
ReplyDeleteU already know how I feel about this as we have discussed it a few times. I agree about having preferences but I think its also important not to put someone in a category too soon without doing some digging. Then u will limit ur selections.
ReplyDelete"not to put someone in a category too soon without doing some digging"...what do you think I should be doing?
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