Hesitation Can Be The Best Move: Some Clearity

A lot of what I say can be taken the wrong way...and been wanting to clear a couple things up.

1. I know a lot of older women that are great women, are single, and in search of that husband type now. I don't want what I said about older women going after the bad guys, then turning around and wanting the good guy to be confused. There are groups of both categories.

2. A friend of mine who has two kids from an a**hole got mad at me when I posted something...saying she didn't want a good guy to come along (even though she does now want a good guy) and be a father figure to her kids. Yet the thing she kinda missed out was that if a man is going to be in a serious relationship with you and you have kids....he should be interacting with the kids...he should be helping with things...he should be a figure in their lives. Not necessarily a father....but someone. And all of this should be happening before the marriage would come (which is not her belief).

3. I said I'm going to stop respecting all females because its not worth it and a bunch of other things. Though I wont be catering to and respecting all females that can not be called Ladies or Women....does not mean I will disrespect them either. There is a difference between not having respect for someone and mistreating them in any way. Lord knows if someone did wrong to my sister I would find them and stomp them. But someone not liking her....I have no problem with that.

4. I grew up tough and poor....but I love it. I'm happy I wasn't given things or pampered. I always smile knowing I could look around my apartment and know that every single thing...my hard earned money paid for it. I have nothing against people that had it is...but I think we all should have a little struggle at least to build character.

5. I have made tons of mistakes in my life. Please do not think I am perfect. I am not perfect by a long shot. But all of those things I have learned from and move forward from. I remember stealing so much growing up that no one in my family or my extended family trusted me. Main targets: school and family members really. Even remember having 3 or 4 girlfriends in high school at one time lol. So please....don't think I'm some angel. I'm a changed man....but we all have done some kind of dirt.