One thing I have learned about myself......with me there are three options with a female I am talking to after I give her a chance and start to get to know her:
- She puts in her side of the effort and we continue moving forward and feeling each other.
- She acts up or doesn't do her share of effort....and I cut her off and delete her number.
- Too many deal breakers make me sit and question why I'm talking to her and if she is worth my time...if not...then I slowly delete her from my life while I vanish into the background lol.
2. I've come to learn females think I wont cut them off with ease. Its amusing really. It just shows they don't really know me. There is no female in my life (except my Mommy) that I won't cut off. Even family. So what crazy idea made her think she wont be next? I have no idea!
3. Well what are deal breakers that make me not want to be with someone?
- Smokers - Its disgusting
- Females that curse too much - Completely unattractive
- No drive or ambitions - My family would never accept you
- Unrealistic - I don't want to baby you in life
- Alcoholic - Like smoking...its disgusting. Not trying to deal with that
- Too openly sexual publicly - I want a Woman and a Lady in public. Not a smut.
- Tons more lol. But too much to say here.
Very well thought out. I like the guidelines you have set but what happens when a woman doens't fall into any of these 3 categories? What if the situation isnt this black and white?
ReplyDeleteThe only way that could happen is if the woman and I are not speaking in w way that leads to a relationship. Most of my friends are females, and so that happens lol.
ReplyDeleteBut you're very right....nothing...well almost nothing...is just black and white. Closed minded people can't go too far.
Fair enuf. I can agree with that.
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